We are typically and informally asked to dress in black for this service. These photos were taken just outside the church in the twilight after the service so the detail is not as great as I would like. My bowler, db jacket, trousers, shirt and shoes are all black. My tie is a black and grey western style tie from Austin accsssories, my pocket square is black and grey stripes as are my socks. So I just added some grey to the over all black.