What is some good advice you have heard over the years as it relates to marriage and parenting? Two that I have heard recently are "The love you feel FOR your children, is not the love they feel FROM you" and "YOUR need for them to do something, is not THEIR need to do something." One that I have come up with myself is "Don't be so busy trying to provide for a family that you are gone so much you don't have a family to provide for." Meaning, not one time have I run into kids or a wife that wanted more stuff. They have all wanted more TIME with their husband/father. I make it a priority to spend quality time with my family each day. I'm not always on point, but I do make an effort. Dates, 20 min special time, play time, a quick game of cribbage, etc.