CHOOSE YOUR FRIENDS WISELY ā YOUR FUTURE DEPENDS ON IT
Ask yourself ā do your friends want to do something special with their lives⦠or are they just passing time? I thought I would write this post because of a DM from a member called Charlie. He told me he knows his current friends arenāt going down the right path, but he feels guilty saying no to hanging out with them. THIS IS MY STORY!!! I get it ā Iāve been there. When I was growing up, my friends on the council estate were just like me. We played football every night on the local field. It was fun, it was normal, it was all we knew. But around 15, things started to change. They got into drinking and drugs. Deep down, I knew it wasnāt right for me. So when they invited me, I didnāt argue or try to convince them otherwise ā I just made excuses. Iād say I had football, was visiting family, or had to stay in. At the same time, my parents stepped in. They got me playing for THREE football teams. To put it simply, I was playing two matches on a Saturday (one in the morning and one later in the day) and another match on a Sunday. On top of that, they signed me up to a karate club as well. At the time, I didnāt fully understand it⦠but it changed everything. I was simply too busy to hang around on the council estate. And more importantly, I was now surrounded by new friends ā teammates and people at karate ā who all wanted to improve, get better, and actually do something with their lives. That environment shaped me. It helped me become a professional goalkeeper, start Just4Keepers and J4K, travel all over the world, and even live in Florida, USA. And hereās something that really hits home⦠Every now and then, I go back to my old estate to check on properties that I now own there. When I do, I still see some of the same people I grew up with. Theyāre now in their mid-50s, still standing on the same street corners. Iāll stop and chat with them, and every single time they say the same thing to me: āYou did the right thing.ā Thatās why Iām sharing this ā especially for the younger members, and for parents to show their kids.