I am feeling very discouraged and depressed. My husband has expressed wanting to divorce. He’s still at home because he can’t afford to move out yet. He wants to act normal until he can afford to leave. I am pregnant. High risk. The stress and fear and anxiety I feel under is overwhelming. I have a history of preterm labor and I just need the strength and protection of God for this baby and my own sanity.

Happy & Blessed Saturday, Godly Wives!! 🌸 I declare and decree that WISDOM is governing your mouth today!! Life and not death will flow from your lips and your husband and your home will feel the difference in Jesus name!! (Proverbs 18:21) ⏬️⏬️ Quick check-in — how is this week's challenge of pinpointing specific lies the enemy been speaking to you about yourself, your husband, and your marriage going? Are you reflecting? Are you pulling those lies into the light, to replace them with God's truth? Keep going. What you are doing in secret is moving things in the realm of the spirit. Now let me add a layer of wisdom to what you are already working on. The reality is that most wives who are in a hard marriage season have been speaking out of their pain. To their husbands. To their friends. To God at 2am when sleep will not come. And that pain is real. I am not dismissing it. But here is what God showed me — and what I teach in Module 2 of the Marriage Renewal Course: The same tongue that has been speaking out of your hurt has the power to speak LIFE. Proverbs 18:21 — "Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof." (KJV) You are eating the fruit of what you have been speaking. Over your husband. Over your marriage. Over yourself in your lowest moments. Now — I am not saying your pain is not valid. It is. And I am not saying he has not contributed to this season. He has. But YOU are carrying a power in your mouth that the enemy has been working overtime to misdirect. And the moment you redirect it toward LIFE — things in your marriage will begin to shift in ways that arguing never could. One practical exercise from the Marriage Renewal Course & it's one I've made a habit of myself: write down 3 things you love or appreciate about your husband every single day. Not because he has earned it every day. But because you are a woman of God who sees as God sees & speaks life not strife. That is who He called you to be.