Gods willing, some day I'll be a mother. We first opened the doors to this possibility in April 2025. We tried for 3 months and then I sent my partner (yes, I sent him) to do a sperm analysis. The test revealed he had no mobile sperm. With the habits we had, this was no surprise. So for the following 9 months, it was business as usual, we had sex when we felt like it, not necessarily paying attention to my Cycle, because we knew it was futile. He just had another test and the results are a little better! Not great, but not zero haha. So we're hopeful but not impatient. The same month we opened the doors, we got Ernie, our cute little stuffed elephant. We got him as a present for our future child, whenever they come into our lives. Ernie has lived on our bed ever since. It's gonna be so cool when our baby is here and we can place Ernie in their arms, infusing all of that loving energy onto them in physical form <3

So idk if this is normal part of 'aging' but I refuse to accept that Ever since we moved to Croatia I see more and more hair in the drain and it's kind of freaking me out. I do know the water here has a much higher mineral content. Maybe I need a filtered shower head? I've tried all these different products - rosemary oil, masks, etc. But I'm starting to think its hormonal and I don't know what to do. Has anyone experienced this? Did you find anything that helps?

What are your biggest struggles with your menstrual cycle?

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😂 My bf sent me this last night. Isn’t it great we get to be a whole different woman each week of your cycle?! This should be part of general Ed for all men. My mom told me in Japanese culture me are taught how to please a woman and I feel o heard something similar about many Native American cultures. They certainly don’t in the states.