The Beauty of the Solemn Pause
For many of the Christian faith, Good Friday is a solemn day. As a child, raised Catholic, I remember going to church and participating in the Stations of the Cross. I also knew we weren’t allowed to eat meat and the adults had to fast on this day. Before the age of 9, I never really understood what that meant but as I got older, I began to appreciate both the story and the tradition. Today, I’ve chosen to explore and share with you some Good Friday traditions. Here’s where you come in. First, I only know about these from research so if you have first hand experience, please share. I know we have several members from around the globe like @Rene Kerkdyk @Ruben Plasmeijer @Mayelice Castro @Max Orlewicz @Gus Gray @Yu-Tzu Huang @Mukkove Johnson @Erin O'Neill @Artur Rozmysł Across the Global Table, Good Friday is observed with a unique kind of "quiet power." While Easter Sunday is a shout of joy, Good Friday is a deep, collective breath. In Spain and the Philippines, massive, silent processions move through the streets, showing that grief and reflection are things we do together, not alone. In France, the church bells are "silenced" (legend says they fly to Rome), creating a literal vacuum of sound that forces everyone to notice the stillness. In the UK and English-speaking traditions, the "Hot Cross Bun" is eaten—a simple, spiced bread that represents a pause for reflection amidst the busy week. When we introduce our kids to these traditions, we are helping them set down the pressure of always having to be "on." We are showing them that "Solemnity" isn't the same as "Sadness." It is a purposeful stillness. In many faiths, this day is about Sacrifice, the act of giving something up for the sake of something greater. Today, we are teaching our kids that there is a profound "mattering" in the moments when we stop doing and start simply being.