Don't lurk. Do this instead.
You may be tempted to lurk - in this community, other forums, or in life. You'll do better to participate instead. Worried you donāt have value to add? Start by giving thanks. If you read something you like then donāt just hit the Like button. Quote it, thank the poster, and explain why it helped you. Hereās whatāll happen: 1) Youāll help the poster realise theyāre not posting to the void. 2) Youāll encourage them to post again. 3) Youāll help them keep going, possibly through dark times. 4) Youāll get into the habit of āgiving thanksā where you explain how itās helped you. 5) Youāll start being seen as someone who appreciates and supports others. 6) Youāll slowly move from team consumer to team producer. 7) Youāll start making friends, building relationships, and creating win-wins (the essence of business). Try it and see what happens. Come back and thank me later.